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1. HOW TO FIND YOURSELF? Educational application cartoon
"Search for yourself" The forest - the squirrel's hollow:
Since childhood, Poli wanted to become an astronaut, but everyone knows that squirrels don't fly in space! So he started looking for something easier and thought it would be cool if he got into sports, pumped up his muscles. Sports squirrels are always in fashion, and girls like them much more. He took old, gunpowder-dusted dumbbells, bought a gym membership, and even started training. The exercises from the rhinoceros-strong video seemed easy, and our Poli repeated them all in one day. Crawling to bed with a view, as if crazy cows had been chasing him all day, Poli fell asleep thinking about a big hamburger nutty double cola, and the surprised faces of people who would disperse because a real giant is coming down the road. But instead of breakfast and an incredible result in the morning, he was met with muscle pain and fear in all places where there were more than 2 steps. Sports is not for me, thought Poli. And the rabbit in the escape is very skillful at snowboarding, the matter is easy and looks better than lifting weights, he thought and decided to become a snowboarder! And he didn't really want to go back to the gym not only because of muscle pain but also because maybe that's why a dumbbell fell on the administrator's foot in the gym, which had to pay for treatment. So the idea with the board was a better option for Poli.
But here's the trouble, there's no board, he thought. But nothing to worry about, there are savings left. Poli went to the ski equipment store, bought a snowboard, and has been watching videos for the second day on how to properly cut through snowdrifts. Fully prepared, he put on a helmet borrowed from his friend Nick, took the board, and when he went out of the house, he noticed that it was summer outside. And this was another idea that turned out to be in vain, although with this idea you can wait until winter. Walking through the forest, he met others and only talked about how he didn't know anything and didn't know what he wanted, so the days passed... months... He watched various videos on Instagram in anticipation of inspiration... But it fell asleep somewhere with Poli's thoughts of becoming better.
One day, walking through the forest, Poli came across a wise owl, whose daughter's friend was on cool self-realization courses and now works as a sales department manager at the best hazelnut paste production company.
Poli hesitated for a long time about the idea of taking courses... In the meantime, he tried to become a barber, cutting his friend Nick's hair very short, which he didn't like at all, this idea became one of those that didn't work out.
So Poli finally went to the courses, where he helped understand the problem of his unsuccessful ideas.
The first thing he understood - 1. DO NOT need to put in too much effort from the very beginning, because you will simply not want to continue or spend your energy on unnecessary things! (that's what happened with sports classes, he took too much on himself and ended up in the negative).
The second thing he understood - 2. It is necessary to highlight the important things. After all, among a pile of rubbish, there is something that is really worth something. Poli jumped from task to task, so by the end of the day, he looked like a squeezed lemon
The third thing Poli said - 3. Analyze mistakes and DO NOT put too much hope on ideas, you need to assess your capabilities wisely. (you can't improve your form in one day, and doing snowboarding in the summer was a bad idea, so he left it for winter, which was already a good idea)
And the fourth thing he understood - 4. DO NOT waste your time only on empty conversations that bring no benefit. That is, words must be backed up by actions!
So the next day, Poli decided to take matters into his own hands. He threw away all unnecessary things and spun 100 barrels of syrup, as he once received a secret recipe from his grandmother that everyone liked. Spending all the money on the best place in the forest, Poli made a sign BEST SYRUP and... didn't sell anything. No one needed a whole barrel, although the syrup was really tasty. However, there was no money left for jars and reservations for the next day.
What should I do with all this? - thought Poli, drinking mint and goldenrod tea and looking into his notebook.
Poli heated up to make the hot air balloon fly higher and higher. Niko looked surprised at the flame that tripled. And Poli with his appearance resembled a stretched squirrel. And suddenly the balloon burst and started falling at a great speed, landing with the balloon directly into the sea, Poli screamed in fear - Aaaah... On that he woke up, with fear understanding that it was a dream.
And another fall, no, thought Poli, I won't fall anymore. He bought plastic cups with his last money and decided to sell maple syrup by the glass. The animals liked the syrup, and over time Poli opened his brand of maple syrup with different flavors.
The sales were going well, so Poli expanded the stall, hiring employees and expanding the menu. Which eventually brought him great success, and he was able to go on vacation in the summer. Who would have thought that you could make money just on maple syrup?
On one of the trips, he found a sponsor and further expanded his stalls in other countries.
With the onset of winter, Poli and Niko went snowboarding, and they were covered in snow, but they were not disappointed because it was very fun, Poli felt a lot of joyful emotions not only from snowboarding but also from the fact that he finally realized what he had long dreamed of and brought it to life.
What changed in Poli from the very beginning? - Maybe he gained self-confidence, maybe the ability to prioritize correctly, or maybe the fear of failure disappeared... Probably fear and laziness prevented POLI from taking steps in the right direction. But still, Poli reached his goals despite the number of mistakes. Remembering how Poli wanted to be a barber and what he did with Niko, their friendship remained just as strong.
Thinking that Poli is at the peak of his goals. Poli wanted to learn Spanish to start living in Madrid. Days passed... And there were slight successes. With the rest, Poli learned Spanish and started living in the center of Spain. Where a little later he opened his restaurant business, after which he did not stop at what he had achieved and moved at his own pace towards his goals.
So the conclusion is: you won't achieve your goals from the first try and without effort!...